Here I am, There You Are
If you had the choice between engaging in a so-so relationship right now or waiting out for what you think is a better one, what would you pick? The answer doesn’t really lie in how patient or impatient you are but how we build things up in our minds. For the realist at hand a so-so relationship may seem much better than it’s fantasy counterpart. Now thinking in the mind frame that the second relationship is merely a fantasy since it’s not in the present sense, what does that say about us? Could we possibly be building these relationships in our heads to protect ourselves? Better yet, are we avoiding reality for the right reasons? Read more »


